In 2013, when my grandson was born,  his first day home, he began to experience some health issues. He gave us a fright. We prayed and we took him to the ER where the doctors were unable to diagnose a condition. He was admitted to the NICU for testing and treatment for what they suspected was a seizure disorder. At the end of the week, after days of testing, he was released without a diagnose’s. At the time, we were told that one of the medications they were prescribing is known to cause developmental delays, so he was going to need some careful monitoring his first year.  As his grandmother I took responsibility for his care. They were already living with me, so everyday, for two years I was privileged to care for my grandson. 

My little man was born blessed. His grandma happened to be a developmental specialist so I felt confident to take on the task of guiding his development.

Well, once he became mobile I had to keep him safe. I childproofed my home. I put up gates to restrict his access, and removed anything that could possibly cause him harm – typical when you have a toddler in the home. Well, at the end of the day when he was safely snuggled in bed the gates would come down, so I could get around without fussing with the gates.

Here’s the lesson. On one particular week, it was already late morning and for whatever reason I had failed to put up the security gates. I hadn’t even noticed they were still down. I was busy getting his bath water ready and he was running around all excited. At that time, he was small enough that I could bath him in the kitchen sink. Well, he was faster than a speeding bullet and smarter than the average bear, I always said. Well, this little guy, in his running around realized the gates were not in place, and doors were opened that should have been closed. Guess what this little guy did…He is still running around so I’m after him. He stopped in front of the bathroom. He pulled on the doorknob and closed the bathroom door. He was pointing and saying something. I can’t honestly say I understood what he was saying. Well, then he brought me the gate that goes on the stairs. Ahh, I got the message. I had forgotten to put up the gates. So, I put up the one he brought to me. Then he grabs the other gate. Well, this little fella may not have understood that the gates were there for his safety.  He just knew they were supposed to be up.

I was impressed. He was not even 20 months and I was like…wow! Maybe he did not sense the danger, or realize that he was not allowed in certain areas. But he did recognize that the gates were supposed to be up. It got me to thinking… as Christians we should be using such wisdom. The Scriptures instruct us to avoid temptation, pitfalls, the wiles of the enemy and we find it hard-pressed to avoid them, even though as adults – we know better. The Lord gave us the ability to discern right from wrong, good from bad… We too are familiar with boundaries – to do just that… to avoid places that can cause us to stumble.

Matthew 21:16 “…and said to Him, “Do You hear what these are saying?” And Jesus said to them, “Yes. Have you never read, ‘Out of the mouth of babes and nursing infants you have perfected praise’?”

1 Peter 5:8 “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.”

James 4:7
“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

Be blessed.

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I’m Irma

Welcome to my little corner of the blog world. Here, I share my thoughts on Christianity, the things of God, and the ways He has shaped and guided my path through life. My journey with the Lord has been long and transformative, marked by moments of peace and joy and periods of uncertainty. I write, first and foremost, for myself—to process what the Lord so graciously reveals to me in Scripture. Sharing some of these truths has become a mission of sorts, via blogging. His word urges us to bear witness and encourage one another.

As I reflect on my own transformation, I can say that the church itself has transformed over the years and not necessarily for the good. I speak about my own experiences with the church. One lesson the Lord impressed upon me this year is that “truth is not always truth.” What do I mean by that? There have been times when I’ve shared a biblical insight, only to realize that other faithful believers interpret the same passage differently. In that instance, I find that the Lord reveals according to our understanding. When I share the need for a Damascus experience understandings diverged sharply. Believers that have been raised in the church do not feel that such an extreme experience is necessary for spiritual maturity. Our faith is truly shaped by our backgrounds. Spiritual journeys are not for everyone. This taught me that early socialization deeply colors our grasp of faith; what’s true for me may not resonate in the same way for someone else.

Similarly, lately I considered how “ignorance of Scripture was its own blessing,” I remembered my early walk with Christ. I had a blind faith. I knew little of doctrine or debate. I trusted the pastor. In those days, my faith and trust in the church and church leaders was simple—I accepted what was taught from the pulpit without questioning. I did not have the knowledge needed to question any teaching. There was a peace in not knowing all the controversies or complexities. As I grew and studied the scriptures, and did some additional research, as the Lord gave understanding, I found myself questioning everything I had been taught. I did not question my faith, or the existence of God. That ignorance, while limiting, protected me from confusion and doubt, allowing me to rest in childlike faith.

The church itself has seen many changes over the decades. Self-proclaimed prophets have introduced new doctrines, some bordering on heresy, while believers wrestle with their flesh and what it means to follow Christ in a society with so many freedoms. I remember a time, more than thirty years ago, when I trusted every word spoken in church. Now, I understand how easy it is to accept teachings that stray from biblical truth. The Scriptures warned us this would happen in the last days.

2 Timothy 4:2-4 (NKJV) “Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.”

Current events—like the 2024 Election—have exposed deep flaws in American Christianity. Yet, through it all, Scripture assures me that God is sovereign. No wall built by human hands can withstand His judgment; no scheme crafted in darkness escapes His light. These lessons have become more real to me as I look back over my journals, filled with stories of God’s faithfulness during trials, tribulations and abundant grace. By sharing I hope those the Lord leads here will desire to seek God wholeheartedly, to find comfort knowing that He is always at work in our lives—often in ways we never considered.

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